Is it ok to veer off of the bridal registry?
Absolutely! The registry is merely a guideline to make gift shopping a bit easier. If there is something else you would like to purchase for the bride and groom go right ahead! I’m sure it will be a nice surprise for the couple. However, I would suggest at least taking a look at their registry to get a feel for their personal style.
How long after the wedding is it appropriate to send a gift?
According to most etiquette books and teachers it is ok to send a gift up to a year after the wedding, however, I disagree. I don’t think you should wait longer than a month or two after the wedding.
Is cash ever an appropriate wedding gift?
Some people like, and prefer, to send cash or gift cards as a wedding gift. In my opinion, money is a hard thing to send because it means different things to different people. To some it may seem like a totally impersonal gift and then others may really love it. It’s hard to gauge, but I tend to advise my clients not to send moneysince there really is no standard amount of money that’s acceptable as a wedding gift.
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